It’s been a hot minute since we first set out to buy a house in France. Our search was centred around the bucolic town of Saintes where we eventually found our very own “place in the sun” complete with requisite pool and ancient garden well. Fast forward a year and we’re doing it all over again – this time in picturesque Provence! We moved near Aix-en-Provence in February (2017) for a short-term work contract, and we’ve been seduced by the area’s charm, fantastic weather and amazing landscapes.

Despite our love of watching other expats find their dream home in France (thank you UK tv!), the real-life version is somewhat more tedious. Did you know that buying a house was recently revealed to be one of life’s most unpleasant experiences? I don’t know why this surprised me, given the number of new grey hairs, sleepless nights and frantic phone calls I’ve had to endure over the last few weeks as we embark on house purchase number 5. Yes, we’ve ridden this roller coaster five times. Three houses in New Zealand, and (almost) two in France later, you think we’d just do what normal people do when they like to move a lot. Rent, that is.

Buying a Home in France vs Buying a Home in New Zealand

Despite our nomadic ways, we enjoy having a home base. So we continue to move, but we learn as we go. Our latest lesson? How buying a house in France is full of surprises – and very different to what we’ve experienced in New Zealand!

Buying a house in France vs buying a house in New Zealand.

Our second home in rural New Zealand.

1. Secret squirrels

One of the biggest frustrations we’ve had with buying a house in France is the secrecy surrounding locations. Listings will give you the village, and may offer a clue such as “centre-ville”, but more often than not you’re left guessing… Instead, you must call the agent to organise a viewing. They’ll then meet you at their office or a mutually arranged spot and you’ll follow them to the house. This is fine until you realise that some properties can easily be ruled out on location alone (it’s called “Location, Location, Location” for a reason!). You could end up wasting the agents time, your own time, and the owners time.

In New Zealand, there is normally (unless it’s an exclusive high-end property) transparency around the location. The address is listed in ads and online, and it’s not unusual to check out the house & area before deciding whether it’s worth viewing or not. Open homes are on 1-2 times a week for around an hour. This is when you can see the house without an appointment. You can also normally arrange a private viewing if you can’t make the open home times.

Buying a house in France vs buying a house in New Zealand

I figure the reason for the French not giving away the address is that they’re worried you’ll undercut them and go to the owners directly. This may be a valid concern, however frustrating it is for buyers! In New Zealand, agents get around this by making you sign a waiver that you cannot sell your house privately (or with another agent) for a set amount of time.

2. Presentation

Flicking through images of dreamy countryside châteaux on the Sotheby’s website probably wasn’t the best introduction to the reality of French real estate. When we did start looking at houses in our price range, it became glaringly obvious that presenting a house for sale is somewhat *ahem* different here… I mean, would you be wooed to drop over €300k on a house by this photo?

Buying a house in France

Despite dubious first impressions, we went on to buy this property…

Adverts on real estate search engines display one solitary photo at worst, and up to 8 at best. They sustain the sole purpose of giving you a rough idea of the qualities of the house, but most certainly don’t serve to “sell” the house in any way. And viewing day presentation is met with the same nonchalant attitude.

In New Zealand, it’s common to get the cleaners in, de-clutter with vigour and hire professional photographers to present your home for sale. Hell, we even re-grassed the entire lawn in one property, and hired a guy with a drone to take aerial shots for another! We figure that what you put into presenting your house you’ll more than recoup when you sell well as a result.

Buying a house in Nz vs Buying a house in France

Our home in Hamilton, New Zealand, presented for sale.

Sellers in NZ commonly pay for ads in local papers, and online listings sport around 10-20 carefully curated photos. Open homes are no exception either. The house will be spotless, sporting fresh flowers and perfectly preened gardens on the day of viewings.

3. A garden isn’t a given

French villages have oodles of charm and character. I mean, who wouldn’t want to live in a pretty stone village house complete with Juliette balcony, flower boxes and fittingly distressed shutters? I know this was my dream when we arrived in France! But there’s one hitch. Outside space is at a premium. Most houses near the centre of the village have none at worst, and an elevated courtyard at best. If you’re really lucky, you’ll find a ground level terrace – which is most often paved.

Differences between buying a house in NZ & France

Left: The houses in Roussillon are charming, if somewhat impractical. Right: Our backyard near Hamilton, New Zealand

This isn’t a problem for many people, but if you have dogs or small children you may find the arrangement lacking. Outside of villages or towns you will find decent-sized yards, but you can kiss goodbye to the dream of owning a character-filled property. This becomes less of a problem as your budget increases though! Old country farmhouses or the ProvençalMas” have the best of both worlds – space, bucket loads of charm, and a large garden to boot…

Meanwhile, many New Zealanders grew up with what is now referred to as the “quarter acre dream” – a modest 3/4 bedroom property on a large fenced section in the suburbs. Although this is getting harder to come by in the larger cities of New Zealand (and almost impossible in Auckland!), the need for a garden is still ingrained in Kiwi culture. Families especially want enough space to have the impromptu game of backyard cricket, and trampolines are a common site in backyards country-wide.

4. The price isn’t really the price

See a French house within your budget? Awesome! Except is it still within budget when you add in the 8% (approx) Notaire’s fee? Yep, you read that right. A lofty percentage of the purchase price is added back on top of the listing price. Although it’s called a Notaire’s fee – the majority of this fee is tax payable to the state, with only a fraction going to the Notaire.  Suddenly that bargain property doesn’t look like such a steal!

When buying property in New Zealand, you can expect to pay around NZD$1k for your lawyer to process the sale, but that’s it. The price you see is the price you’ll pay (unless of course, you manage to negotiate it down!).

– But at least you know the price!

While there are hidden fees to take into account when buying French property, one major benefit is knowing the price to begin with! Most properties have a price tag in France. But in New Zealand, auctions and negotiations are commonplace, so you’re often left to your own assumptions.

Buying a home in France.

After negotiating heavily, we finally landed our dream home in France.

5. Good things take time

So you’ve found your perfect French house, agreed on the price and got your finances in order… Fantastic! Now all you have to do is wait. And then wait some more. The settlement date is a fluid notion that’s subject to the local Mayor’s office efficiency, the Notaire’s workload, and often a good dose of luck (good or bad!). The average time from agreement to settlement in France is about 3 months. In our experience, this can be shortened by making a few phone calls and pleading your case with a compelling argument. Either way, you’ll be left guessing for the better part of 2 months.

In New Zealand, the settlement date is part of the purchase agreement. That is, both the seller & buyer have to agree on the date before the purchase goes through. This can be as short as 2-3 weeks, or as long as 2-3 months (with exceptions). But the best part of this is being able to plan movers, organise utility connections, and circle a date in your diary!

When we sold our home in Hamilton, we had a 3-week settlement – just enough time to pack up for our move to France!


While house-hunting in France isn’t a walk in the park, there’s no doubt that it’s one of the most charming places to do it! Driving through Provence’s postcard perfect villages and visiting houses brimming with history and character makes the journey worth the bumpy ride. And while we haven’t yet found our perfect Provençal pad, I’m hopeful that our dream house is just around the corner… Watch this space!

Tell me – have you even bought a property in a foreign country? What surprises did you come across?

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Thinking about buying a home in France? As fun as it can be to search for a home in France, there are a few speedbumps along the way! Read 5 surprises about buying a home in France vs buying a house in New Zealand!